If you want to make it look like you’re not manipulating the system while still gathering evidence , here’s a clear and tactical way to do it: ⚠️ Frame Everything as “Seeking Clarity” – Not Accusation 1. Use Open-Ended Language. Instead of saying “This was manipulated,” say: “I noticed some unusual changes in my application after I made an inquiry.” “Can you help me understand how this decision was made and whether something was altered?” 2. Ask for Logs or Internal Notes. You’re entitled to see what changes were made. Say: “Can I please see the case notes or audit trail regarding my file after [insert date or phone call]?” “I’d like to know if any updates were made to my record around that time.” 3. Document Everything. Take screenshots, save emails, record call dates, and if legal, record the calls. Note any inconsistency, no matter how small. 4. Maintain a Calm, Cooperative Tone. You want them to feel like you’re just trying to understand—while be...
